“All We Have to Decide is What to do With the Time that is Given Us” J.R. Tolkien
- Adrian Miller
- Dec 1, 2023
- 2 min read

In the whirlwind rush of the holiday season, we often find ourselves caught up in the frenzy of holiday parties, cooking and cleaning for company, and buying gifts to express our love and appreciation for those dear to us.
Yet, amid the chaos of shopping lists and wrapping paper, we tend to overlook one of the most precious and invaluable gifts we can offer: time.
Sometimes, the greatest holiday gift we can give isn't found in stores or wrapped in shiny paper; it's the simple act of dedicating our time, attention, and presence to those we appreciate and love.
Love and appreciation are encapsulated within the essence of time. Time holds an unparalleled value that transcends material possessions; it's an offering of oneself, undivided and wholly present. In a world where time seems to be constantly slipping through our fingers, the act of sharing it becomes all the more meaningful.
Here’s how to do it:
1. Quality Conversations: Engage in heart-to-heart conversations with loved ones. Put away distractions, sit down, and truly listen. Engaging in meaningful dialogues fosters a deeper connection and understanding.
2. Shared Experiences: Create lasting memories by spending time doing activities together. Whether it's baking cookies, going on a hike, playing board games, or watching a favorite movie, shared experiences build bonds.
3. Acts of Service: Offer your time to help someone in need. It could be as simple as assisting with household chores, running errands, or volunteering together at a local charity.
4. Quality Time Traditions: Establish traditions that prioritize spending time together. It could be a weekly family dinner, a monthly game night, or an annual holiday getaway—consistently making time for these moments strengthens relationships.
5. Presence over Presents: Prioritize presence over material gifts. Sometimes, being there for someone during a difficult time or celebrating their achievements means more than any material possession.
As we navigate the bustling holiday season, let's remember that amidst the hustle and bustle, the most valuable gift we can give is our time.
It's a gift that leaves an indelible mark on the hearts of those we hold dear—a timeless expression of love and appreciation.




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